Embracing the Eclipse: A New Cycle of Boundaries, Self-Prioritization, and Growth
As the eclipse settles, I can't help but reflect on how it’s setting the stage for a powerful new 2.5-year cycle. This eclipse mirrors a time many of us experienced between 2015 and 2017—a time of transformation, challenges, and, for me, lessons in boundaries.
It’s the perfect moment to pause and ask: How do I want to do things differently this time around?
Looking back at who I was during that period, I can see so many things I would have done differently. It’s not about regretting the past but about learning from it and using those lessons to create a future that’s aligned with the life I truly want to live.
🚩Chasing Men & Relocating for Happiness
One of the biggest lessons I learned was about relationships. Back then, I was constantly chasing after men, relocating my entire life to where they lived, convinced that if I just followed them, happiness would follow too. Spoiler alert: it didn’t. Happiness doesn’t come from molding your life to fit someone else’s; it comes from staying true to yourself and your own path.
🚩Putting My Career on the Back Burner
Another lesson? I wish I had prioritized my career more. Instead of letting it take a backseat while I made myself small to accommodate others, I could have been building something incredible for myself. I was too busy saying yes to everyone else, and as a result, I lost sight of my own ambitions.
🚩The Power of Boundaries
Most importantly, I would have had clear, strong boundaries. Boundaries that would have allowed me to protect my energy, honor my needs, and make decisions that were right for me, not based on what others wanted or expected from me.
If I could go back and do it all over again, I wouldn’t make the same sacrifices. Instead of saying yes to everyone else and losing myself in the process, I would have said yes to me.
Now, I know some people get caught up in regret when they reflect on their past mistakes or missed opportunities. But honestly? I’m just grateful I get the chance to go again. ✨
This time, I get to live for me—unapologetically. I’ve learned what it means to honor my own boundaries, follow my intuition, and put my needs first. And I’m ready to embrace this next cycle with open arms.
If you're feeling the energy of this eclipse and sensing that it's time for you to reclaim your life, I’m here for you. In my 1:1 coaching, we dive deep into setting boundaries, prioritizing your needs, and breaking free from the patterns that have been holding you back.
It’s never too late to rewrite your story and start a new chapter—one that’s all about you. Let’s make this cycle one of empowerment, growth, and self-love.
Let’s get you aligned for this next phase. You deserve to live a life that honors your boundaries, your dreams, and yourself. 🖤
